Monday, October 26, 2009

SEX AND THE CITY

Aizawl-a nawhchizuarte dawrtu zingah pa, pawm lai nei an tam a, nawhchiazuarte pawhin pawm lai neite kawm an duh zawk tih zirchianna-ah hmuhchhuah a ni.

New Life Home Society project manager N Samuel-a chuan nawhchizuar 294-te chungchang chu survey neiin a zir a, chutah chuan Aizawla nawhchizuarte dawrtu zingah pawm lai nei an tam hle tih a hmuchhuak a ni.

Zirchiannaa a lan dan chuan, nawhchizuar dawrtu zinga za zela 80 chu pawm lai nei an ni a, heng zinga 60% chu Mizo niin 20% chu hnam dang an ni. Dawrtu zingah tleirawl chu 5% an ni a, heng zinga 4% chu Mizo niin 1% chu hnamdang an ni. Pathlawi/Pavalai hi 15% an tling a, 10% chu Mizo niin hnam dang chu 5% an ni.

"Nawhchizuar dawrtu, pawm lai neite hi pa pangngai tak tak an ni, pa tawp tak an ni lem lo," tiin N Samuel-a chuan Zozam Weekly a hrilh.

"Contractor te, engineer te, lecturer te, hna tha tak tak thawk an ni nawk," tiin hemi chungchang hi a sawi zawm a ni.

"Nawhchizuarte pawhin pa hi an duh zawk reng reng, a chhan chu a sum nei zawk an ni a. Kan enkawl mekte hian pa an duh zawk; 'tleirawl chuan min risk an ching,' an ti thin. Sum an neih avang hian anmahni dawr turin pa an duh zawk tih hi chu a chiang," a ti.

"Sum an neih zawk bakah pa chuan an sawichhuak ve lo a, nawhchizuarte hian mi hriat nih an duh lo a, pawm lai neite chuan an dawr a nih pawhin an sawichhuak ve lo a, chu chu an duh chhan pakhat a ni," a ti bawk.

N Samuel-a hian New Life Home Society te enkawl mek nawhchizuar 294-te dinhmun a zir a, he'ng mi 294-te zinga mi 68 chu an dam tawh. "An thachhuak a, mahni thiam ang angin ei te pawh an zawng ve a. Pasal neiin chhungkua te pawh a then chuan an din ve," tiin a sawi.

An nawhchizuar enkawlte dinhmun sawiin, nawhchizawrh chu an ning ve hle niin a sawi a, "Mi pangngai nun-a nun an chak ber. Insitna te, inthiam lohna te an nei a, sim hi an chak em em a ni," a ti.

"Ti lo thei lo dinhmunah an ding a, an chak em vanga hetiang ti hi an ni lo," a ti bawk.

Nawhchizuar pakhat chanchin sawiin, tleirawl te a nih laiin chu nu chuan pasal a nei a, a pasal chu a nu leh a pa chuan an duh lo em em; chuti chungin a nei lui a, an tuithlar ta a, mahse, a pasal chuan a ma leh si, chuta tang chuan nawhchi a zuar ta niin a sawi.

A pasal te chhungkua kha a rin ang an lo ni si lo a, an inngeih rei lo hle ni-a sawiin, an mak hnu-ah a chhungte a pawh ngam tawh si lo, a tei kual vel ta a, dinhmun harsa taka a awm laiin nawhchizawrhna khurah a tlu lut ta niin a sawi a ni.

Harsatna hrang hrang vangin hetiang khurah hian hmeichhia an tlu lut thin tih sawiin N Samuel-a chuan, "Thingtlangmi, Aizawl-a awm, fate chawm ngai se, inhlawhna tur hmu mai si lo te pawh an awm. Ti lo thei lo dinhmuna ding an awm nawk," a ti.

Aizawlah hian nawhchizuar chi thar an chhuak tiin a sawi theih ang. Chutiang mite chuan nawhchizuar ti-a sawi erawh an duh hauh lo. Pawisa hlawha mipat hmeichhiatna hmanpui tur an hmuh changin, an hlawh turah an lungawi chuan hmeichhe thenkhat chuan an 'aw' mai thin. Chutiang chu tun hnaia hriat thar ni-a ngaih a ni.

"Thawmhnaw te, nawmsakna lam thil eng engemaw awh vanga inhralh ta mai tun hnaiah an awm. Chutiang mite chuan inhralh an tum hran lo a, anmahni dawr tur pawh an zawng chuang lo. Mahse, remchang an hmuh khan an 'yes' ta mai thin," tiin N Samuel-a chuan hemi chungchang hi a sawi.

"Tleirawl zingah an tam. Chhungkaw pangngai tak taka mi te an ni a, khawlaiah hmu ila chutiang ti tura kan rin lem loh tur te pawh an ni ang. Ruihhlo te pawh an ti thin. Pawisa hlawhna tur a nih chuan tiin sex hi an hmang ta thin ni berin a lang," a ti.

"A man chu a pawisain an dawng a, pawisa an dawn rual rualin sex an hmang ta pawh a ni chuang lo, an inkawp phawt te pawh a ni thei. Tin, a pawisaa dawng lovin phone emaw top up zawng te pawhin an dawng a, thil tha tak tak dawng te pawh an awm mai thei," a ti bawk.

N Samuel-a chuan top up man tuaka vai mistiri hnenah inhralh te pawh an awm tih a sawi a, sikul naupang zingah nawhchizuar ni chiah lo chunga hetianga hlawh neia sex hmang thin hi an tam niin a sawi bawk.

"Ngaihzawngte pawh an nei ve tho a, remchangah midang an lo kawp thin. Ka kawm tawhte chuan an ngaihzawngte nena an awmho lai chuan anmahni dawr duhtute'n rawn phone mah se an chhang duh lo thin tih an sawi," a ti.

"Hetiang ti thin zingah tleirawl an tam a, hnathawh nei pawh an awm tho," a ti bawk.

Aizawlah hian nawhchizuar 'demand' a sang ni-a sawiin nawhchizuarte dinhmun zirchiangtu chuan, "Demand hi a sang; customer tur han zawn vak pawh a ngai lo. Tleirawl phei chuan zan khatah pali/panga te an kawm thei," a ti.

Aizawlah hian nawhchizuarte inzawrhna hmun bik a awm hran lo a, tun hma deuh kha chuan kawngsir lun laiah te an awm mai thin. Mobile phone chhuah hnu-ah erawh phone hmangin anmahni dawrtute nen an inko mai thin. Amaherawhchu, khawlaia awm tawk pawh an la awm tho.

Nawhchizuar zingah hian nu, pawm lai neite pawh an awm nual a, mahse, an pasalte hriat lohva a ruka ti vek an ni tih zirchiannaah chuan a lang.

New Life Home Society te hian, tarlan tawh angin, nawhchizuar 294 an enkawl mek a, AIDS natna hrik an kai loh nan leh an tihdarh loh nan te an pui a, he khur atanga an chhuah theih nan an pui bawk.

Mi 294 zingah hian HIV Poisitive 3 an awm a, 1 phei chu hman ni lawka hriatchhuah a ni. 294 zinga a tam zawk AIDS laka an fihlim a nih chuan he natna do kawngah Mizoram chu kawng engemaw chenah a hlawhtling tiin a sawi theih ang a, chutih rual chuan hmeichhia- nawhchizuar ni lo leh mipa- nawhchizuar dawr ngai lote zingah mipat hmeichhiatna hman khawloh a hluar hle thung a nih chuan Mizorama AIDS veite zingah mipat hmeichhiatna atanga he hri vei an tam hle mai hi thil mak a ni lo ang. Nawhchizuar ni lo leh nawhchizuar kawm ngai lo te'n he hri hi an tidarh hle tihna pawh a ni thei ang.


Aizawla nawhchizuarte chu
Aizawl khawpui chhunga nawhchizuar 294-te dinhmun zirchiannaah chuan, mi 294 zingah khawlaia teikual thin chu 156 an ni a, mobile phone leh a ruka mi dawr thin chu mi 110 an ni a, mahni chenna in lama pan theih 28 an awm.

Kum 10 -15 inkar mi 3 an awm a, kum 16-20 inkar 68, kum 21-25 inkar chu 94 an awm. Kum 26-30 inkar 79, kum 31-55 mi 40, kum 36-40 inkar 6, kum 40 chunglam 4 an awm bawk.

Zirna lamah chuan primary school thlenga zir mi 43 an awm a, middle school thleng chin 89, high school chin 118, higher secondary chin 42, graduate chin 2 an awm.

Pasal nei lo mi 142 an ni a, pasal nei lai 25 an awm a, inthen 127 an awm bawk.

Mi 294 zinga 46 chu thingtlangmi niin, 248 chu khawpuia cheng an ni.

Chhungte nena khawsa 221 an nih laiin mahni ina awm lo chu 73 an ni.

Ruihhlo duh vanga inzuar an tam ber a, mi 120 chuan ruihhlo an duh vanga inzuar niin an insawi. Incheina duh vanga inzuar chu 65 niin mi 56 te chu chhungkaw harsatna (broken family) vang a ni a, retheih vanga insawi 31 an awm a, awmtha duhlo hrim hrim 13, pasal nena inthen 5 an awm a, kumtlin hmaa pawngsual vang nia insawi 4 an awm bawk.

Dawrtu an neih zingah pawmlai nei chu za zela 80 an tling a, heng zinga 60% chu Mizo niin 20% chu hnam dang an ni. Dawrtu zingah tleirawl chu 5% an ni a, heng zinga 4% chu Mizo niin 1% chu hnamdang an ni. Pathlawi/Pavalai hi 15% an tling a, 10% chu Mizo niin hnamdang chu 5% an ni.

Zirchianna an neihna mi 294 te hian nawhchizuar an nih hmain sex an hmang tih an sawi vek.

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